Mr. had a mustache, a beard and a hearty laugh. He was slightly shorter than Mrs. who was tall, thin and the first Marathoner I knew. They were really nice, had three cute kids, and went to the same grocery store, ballet teacher, and dynamo soccer field that we did. They were the only other family on the block who decorated with a Christmas tree instead of a menorah in December. And every year, I looked forward to their holiday party.
The Spolars were one of the only couples to send an invite addressed to the whole family. My mom, dad, brother, sister and I were all invited to their annual Open House. Kids were welcomed with open arms. Santa came. The food and liter Cola were great. And Mr. and Mrs. were cordial, gracious, and unphased by children running around their home every year.
I can still see my route upon entering their house. First, to the buffet table in the dining room which hosted the minty layered brownies that I had waited 365 days to bite into again. Then to the kitchen for a Coke. Next, upstairs to check out the action in the playroom. In my red smocked jumper I wasn't dressed for indoor hoops, so back downstairs to grab more brownie bars and cozy up under their Christmas Tree, waiting for Santa and a candy cane. I always felt at home in their house. And I don't think I ever really appreciated their hospitality until recently.
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On Sunday afternoon, Peter and I were getting ready to open up our backyard and ultimately our house to some neighbors, friends and family for some good old fashioned fun. Peter had schlepped a truck load of apples back from Southern Illinois, Double G's famous press was getting a scrub down, and my pregnant belly was grumbling for cider.




A couple weeks ago, when I sent out the family-friendly invite, I neglected to do a count. And I kind of forgot that all of our go-to guests have kids of their own now. So on Sunday morning, when Peter asked me how many we were expecting, I started to panic. I ball parked. 20? 25?
By 3:30, we were nearing 40. Children were running around playing hide and seek in our back yard; there was ample man power quartering apples, smashing them, and pressing them into fall's sweet nectar; kids were lined up under the spout of the press to drink cider from its source; apples flew, crackers crumbled, and little hands got a little messier with each chocolate chip cookie. Even when the party and some leaves flew inside, I found myself just taking it all in and smiling. Mostly, because I saw how much fun all the kids were having, including Mary. And I thought this was just the way Grandpa Barry would have wanted it.
Lo.










